Valentine's day has come and gone,but I just thought we could discuss some relationship truths to ensure you are not alone on the next valentine's day,and if you weren't this year,to ensure you don't lose your partner.
I've been seeing posts on facebook and tweets on twitter asking questions why the good guys often get their hearts broken.I may have some of the answers here:
Have you ever wondered why a good girl despite her hatred for smoking and alcohol still dates a guy that drinks? The reason is this,as much as she hates those habits,she enjoys the fun that comes with it.guys who drinks always have causes to hang out,and maybe a couple of times,the girl will be there too.girls likes having fun,religious or not. Take her to the beach,let her hang out with you and your friends in a bar, take her to go watch a movie; they just love to have fun, and sadly most good guys don't measure up in the fun department. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying you're bad because you drink,and you're not because you do.
Good guys make the mistake of caring too much and girls don't like it when you care too much; it makes them uncomfortable,you want to show that you care and so you call every hour,if she hasn't complained yet;believe me she's got a high tolerance level. Calling too often put girls off,and its a mistake most good guys make. Don't blame them,there's no other person,its only you. It should be a good thing but as it turns out,girls don't like it. That's another reason why she left.
Also,most good guys let girls have their ways too easily. You believe that because you love her, and you deny yourself most times because you are in love. The bad thing is it only makes you look weak and most girls don't want to be with a weak guy. You gotta get angry when you should,ignore her calls when she deserves it , you have to remind her that you are the man.
Sex is also an issue in relationships. Many good guys won't ask for it except the girl gives it freely. Even when they make moves and the girl pretends to be angry they let go, and the girl thinks to herself."What a fool I'm dating!" You don't have to be a bad guy to give it to your girlfriend anyway she wants it............okay; I should stop talking about this. But my point is you have to understand who your partner is and relate accordingly. If you are the good guy who wouldn't. Have pre-marital sex,you have no business dating a girl who would.
There is also one thing;as bad as it is to cheat on your partner, girls seems to get a kickout of knowing there is a possible rivarly. They live everyday to impress you because they know there's always a girl close enough already to take their place once they misbehave, even if its clear you have nothing going with those close girls. But when a girl never had to ask who a girl who just called you is or what you want with someone,she begins to wonder if she's not the cheapest girl around to have settled for you.
Bad boys are hopeless romantics. You should learn how too.they know when to do what and when to stop.that's their charm ,and that's their edge over you.
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