Mistakes men make in relationships

We all know that relationships can be tough,they begin with an awkward dating period where both persons will be on their best behaviour,after a few months,those curtains start to unraveland you begin to see shadows of the real person. Men often make a number of mistakes during their initial phases and I'm here to help you recognize the worst ones.if you are just getting started in a relationship or part of a long-term affair,keep tracks of these tips

GIVING YOUR WOMAN TOO MUCH POWER
You would get into trouble if you give your lady too much power,and control in the relationship.these are scenarios where a man believes he doesn't deserve a type of a certain woman and can't make decisions on his own.surging the power closer or on a 50-50 deal will be beneficial to both of you;or an 80-20 deal.

TRYING TO INVOKE TOO MUCH OF YOUR OWN CONTROL
Even though it is not recommended that you relinquish complete control of your relationship to the lady in your life,you also should not hoard it all for yourself.power struggles can create a competitive environment ,and there is no place for competition in a relationship.truth be told,most people like some level of control in their lives and this includes relationships with significant others.you should definitely work within respectable levels when it comes to control.whether its your heavy-handed decision-making or a demanding attitude...women don't like controlling men and a controlling man reels of insecurity.

BELIEVING THAT THE GOOD YOU DO TODAY WILL LAST UNTIL TOMORROW
Women have short memories,flowers and candies mean that you have her today------- but tomorrow is a new day and a new chance for you to prove your love all over again.a man tends to linger on his good motives and can't understand it when his sweetie throws a hissy-fit while wearing a new dress he bought just three days ago,being a good boy scout doesn't mean you are no longer obligated to do your chores.keep doing the things you know are neccesary for the relationship's success.women appreciate good deeds even more .

COMPLACENCY
If you are not exactly where you want to begin your life(financially,physically)------ its okay.women tend to focus more on the future ,so you shouldn't worry about having the world in your palms when you first meet.overtime,most women will expect to see some progress and eventually some results.try not to sit idle as life passes you by.even if you are not the biggest fish in the pond,being tenacious and goal-oriented is all any woman would ask for.if she's asking for more,you might need to reconsider who you are with.

CHOOSING A WOMAN BASED ON APPEARANCE
This is really dangerous,but all men know that it is difficult to look past the sexiness.physical attraction is extremely important ,and men sometimes forget to investigate the other critical attribute they desire in a woman.since we are from the planet of imagery.male judgement is often clouded in the beginning of a relationship.a man's interest in physical compability may keep him from thinking about those other crucial attributes until its too late.don't forget about essential qualities like compassion,compability and whether or not she makes any sense when she speaks.

PLACING SOMEONE OR ANYONE BEFORE YOUR MATE
Granted,there will be times when you would like to hang out with the boys,or occasions when you have extra work to do on some new project but those things should never hold more meaning than your relationship.when a woman feels that someone or something is more important than she is,you may have problems getting her to respond to anything you have to say.

YIELDING TO TEMPTATION FROM OTHER WOMEN
For some old reason,women are frequently more attracted to men who are attached or already married.this isn't a good thing if you are in a strong relationship and have a weakness for lust.your lady isn't stupid----------she knows that you can't help but look at other women from time to time,but that's as far as it gets.