SETTING BOUNDARIES IN RELATIONSHIPS

I have heard of very ridiculous things people accept from their partners just to keep their relationships and to keep their partners from walking away and I find it rather unnecessary because I have learnt that when people want to walk away from you,let them walk;there is no point reducing yourself to a doormat just because you want to keep a relationship!I find that one of the reasons why people do this is because they believe no one else will love them as much as: which is rather ridiculous because the person that has fallen out of love with them,loved them initially,so what stops someone better from loving them?the truth is we all have to learn to know when peoples part in our story is over;if you have to talk someone into loving and caring for you,then leave them(well,except of course you are already on the other side of the altar) your destiny is not tied to the person who has left;people leave because they are not joined to you,let them go,don't wait until you get to that point when you lose your self esteem,respect and confidence before you decide to let them take their leave.