HOW TO CHOOSE A MARRIAGE PARTNER

You want to know what you should take into consideration in choosing a marriage partner,then,I will teach you how to buy a computer and how to use it.

  A computer is made up of parts, isn't it? There's hardware,operating system, there are the applications. Only a fool buys a computer based on just the casing,what's inside is the computer matters. Casing makes the computer attractive and they come in different forms,some are slim.some are bulky,some are black while some are brown it all depends on your taste.

On this same computer are applications like word and excel,in human terms,this applications will be things like cooking and being homely e.t.c they are just applications now you know that these applications cannot run without an operating system, the operating system of a computer has been  there from the start when it was built, it was along the line that applications can be installed on the computer base on choice and you know that these applications cannot run without an operating system, don't you?

  Operating system is the key,if I were you,I will pay attention to the operating system of a computer
and in human terms this operating system will be the philosophy of life, values, beliefs, faith, exposure, education because they determine character,attitude and behaviour.

An application may be wonderful but if the operating system is full of bugs the application will
malfunction. If a problem is coming from the operating system it will be obvious because its the root.
Imagine a beautiful laptop with a messed up operating system,that's like a beautiful woman with a
bad character isn't it?  But do you know that an operating system is also useless without applications, what's the use of MAC OS without word or excel or even office? The philosophy, beliefs and values of a potential partner are very critical. We are all stuffed with different files: knowledge, virtue, goodness..  But some people are stored with pain and bitterness. Theses are large files either and they corrupt other files, they are full of bugs, well known viruses! Be careful!

 Now about the computer screen,what is projected on the screen is usually sales pitch,animation and stuffs, they are just promotional stuff,they are mostly fake, don't just buy a computer on the
recommendation of someone, the computer is going home with you not him! Run your checks, do due
diligence, ask questions and don't ignore warnings when buying a computer. But you know you must love your computer to care for it very well, hmmmmm....love. Love is important . This is just few tips on how to buy a computer and how to choose a marriage partner!

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GRAY AREAS IN RELATIONSHIPS

                       GRAY AREAS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Have you ever been stuck in the gray area in your relationship? You know,when you have a huge disagreement and you both never came to a compromise. The problem was never solved and you ended the discussion without knowing what's going to happen next,he goes home and you didn't stop him. Days goes by, and you refuse to call him because you are sick and tired of being the one to make the first move. He doesn't call too because he felt you over-reacted and his ego won't allow him to apologize.

  This can go on for days and sometimes weeks, you go about your days wondering where you stand with him and if this is a break-up or not. This leads to assumptions on both ends. He wonders if you are seeing someone else,while you are having the same thoughts, however instead of addressing the issues,you both just remain in the gray area.

  This is a dangerous area to be in a relationship. Because it gives rooms for assumptions that can lead to worse problems. There is no communication and without this, how will you know what your mate is feeling? There is no possible way.

  Relationships should be kept in black and white at all times, always keep the lines of communication open where you can feel free and safe to express yourself. Its important that you don't allow your partner to assume what's going on in your head, because chances are this will not work in your favour, never go to bed with unresolved issues. They will not go away just because you both choose to have sex and ignore them. This is what happens,I know because I have been guilty of this before, address your problems in an appropriate manner so you can come to a mutual understanding and compromise.

    Know where you both stand with eachother,afterall the relationship is about the both of you ,right? It doesn't affect just one person.its OK to give your mate space, however, you must establish what it is. Space doesn't mean freewill to see other people.this is not an avenue to sleep around. Its time to think things through on your own. This is normally just for a few days or weeks. Nonetheless,this is something both parties must agree upon and should only be done with the intentions to make the relationship stronger.as long as you keep this in mind, you will always avoid being in the gray area.

    Sometimes its hard to submit. You want to always be right and have the last word. In times like this, you find it impossible to compromise because you feel as though you are given in.when you are faced with this kind of situation, instead of just dropping the issue unresolved, agree to disagree. Then at a more appropriate time , you can bring the issue up again, you will find that you can come to a better understanding without all the pressure.

  Relationships are healthier when it is in black and white. You will always know where you stand and where you are headed with your mate, its either good or bad,happy or sad, but never in-between.